WHY MEN FOOL AROUND

Why men fool around even if there are no visible reasons of dissonance in marriage? There is a set of the reasons and factors which, anyway, influence man's change. In certain cases wives in due time manage to establish the reason and by that to prevent change. Otherwise, when the reason consists in character and personal features of the man, all efforts from the wife will be ineffectual.

CHANGE REASONS

One of the reasons of man's changes is the boredom and monotony in the family relations. Long cohabitation, the adjusted life, the quiet stable relations and confidence that the objectives are achieved do life of the man boring and uninteresting. The man wants to self-actualize in the love plan, to be convinced that it still in shape, sometimes flirtation on the party is already a victory, sometimes intimacy with other woman is the proof of inexhaustible forces.

Anyway, this type of change can be prevented if in time to diversify family life, for example, a spontaneous trip on rest, romantic evening or joint occupation by extreme sports, everything depends on your preferences and hobbies of your spouse. Besides, do not forget to watch the appearance and clothes, surprise the beloved every day and then you should not think how to endure divorce after change of the husband.

EMOTIONAL DISCOMFORT

The psychological or so-called emotional discomfort can become one of the reasons of change not only from the husband, but also the wife. Several years of joint life when each of spouses is busy with development of the successful career, can alienate significantly them from each other. Spouses together visit more and more seldom restaurants, parties, meetings with the general friends, communicate less often, find new hobbies on the party, cease to spend time with each other, moving away thereby further and further and losing the general common ground. Thereof there is an emotional discomfort, being together, the husband and the wife feel awkwardly or not comfortably, in certain cases they even have nothing to talk alone.

In such situation it becomes clear why men fool around, they seek understanding and approval elsewhere. If at some point your joint life you begin to understand that you move away, then here it is worth making a choice that career or a family is more important for you. At the correct approach, it is possible to combine successfully not only career and a family, but also to be engaged in a favourite hobby. About change, as a rule, the woman is prompted by intuition, but before passing to charge, it is worth making sure whether your assumptions are right.

How to learn what the husband changes? It is much simpler, than can seem at first sight, first of all, his behavior changes, it changes externally, inflow of finance to the family budget decreases. Unfortunately, there is a category of men who do not represent the life only with one woman. They can sincerely love both the wife and the mistress, they accept maintaining a double life. As a rule, such men perfectly adapt and dexterously mask, it is the most difficult to reveal them and their wives learn about existence of the competitor months or years later.

Psychologists claim that such men will hardly change the habitual way of life, it is put in genes. Undoubtedly, most of women will not begin to be reconciled with presence of the mistress, and therefore for them the only decision is divorce with the husband. In most cases, the woman without problems can prevent man's change.